Question from a reader:
Recently, I heard that Takahira Kuruma from Reiwa Roman is having issues with online casinos. Why do successful people, like Nakai-san, end up engaging in risky activities? Can they not foresee the loss of their status or the increased scrutiny from the public? When they start to earn a lot of money, do they lose sight of
their surroundings? Or is it because they are successful that they attract more attention, leading to greater pressure from law enforcement and society?
Between Success and Risk
Hearing about Takahira Kuruma’s situation made me ponder why successful individuals venture down dangerous paths. It’s puzzling how they can take such risks knowing the public eye is on them. In my younger days, I had a taste of success, and there were times when I too felt oblivious to my surroundings. Especially when going out for drinks with friends, I sometimes got carried away, feeling as if money was limitless. I would laugh and end up ordering expensive drinks and food. But later, when I reflected on those moments, I often thought, “I should have saved a bit more back then.”
The Blindness of Success
Upon hearing about Takahira Kuruma, I realized that success might make it difficult for individuals to consider how their actions affect those around them. Once they become popular, the expectations and pressures from their surroundings increase dramatically, making it hard to maintain composure. I love comedy, and watching stand-up and skits often makes me feel connected to their successes and failures. Behind the moments that make us laugh, these performers likely face their own struggles and dilemmas. Knowing that their efforts and hardships exist behind our laughter makes me want to support them even more.
The Influence of Surroundings and Lack of Awareness
What concerns me the most is the thought that “the individual may not have been aware of the danger.” Perhaps they treated it with the same casualness as gambling in a friendly game. I, too, sometimes get caught up in light-hearted games with friends, often unaware of the hidden risks involved. A small pastime can unexpectedly lead to a significant problem, so it’s essential to remain cautious. Recently, when I take my child out for fun, I sometimes find myself overspending. I completely understand the urge to buy sweets and toys for them. However, I often realize my wallet feels lighter than expected, surprising myself with how much I’ve spent. While it’s hard to resist a child’s smile, I’ve come to appreciate the importance of enjoying things in a more planned manner.
Let’s Share Our Experiences!
So, what do you all think? I’d love for you to share your thoughts on why successful individuals take risks or share your own experiences in the comments. As we strive for success, let’s also be mindful not to lose sight of ourselves. No matter how small, I’d love to hear your stories!
