Question from a reader:
What do you think about Yutabon?
Thoughts on Yutabon
Lately, I’ve been hearing a lot about Yutabon. There are various opinions circulating regarding his father’s unique values and educational philosophy, and personally, I find my feelings to be a bit complex.
His Choices and Their Background
The choice for a child not to attend school surely comes
with its reasons. However, I believe that the experiences of playing and learning with friends during that formative period are essential for character development. I have fond memories of the time I spent with my friends as a child. I still smile when I recall the moments we shared laughter while eating ice cream on our way home from school. But Yutabon is in a somewhat unique environment, different from ordinary children, which makes it hard to imagine what “normal” means for him. I do wonder how he feels about his school life now.
The Line Between Victim and Perpetrator
In a way, I see Yutabon as a victim. His life has been significantly influenced by his parents’ values. Because of this, I believe it’s crucial for him to find his own path and live a life without regrets moving forward. Recently, I’ve been reflecting on what I should teach my own child, and I hope he can express himself freely while also feeling the responsibilities of being a parent.
Memories to Cherish
Recently, I took my child to the park, and watching him play on the swings reminded me of my own childhood. I was reminded of the joy of playing with friends and the importance of having a sense of adventure. I hope Yutabon accumulates many such memories in his life. So, what do you all think about Yutabon? If you were in a similar situation, what choices would you have made? I look forward to hearing your experiences and thoughts in the comments!