Question from a reader:
I have a hard time with Shohei Ohtani, Yuzuru Hanyu, and Masaharu Fukuyama. Everyone around me says they are popular, but is it strange that I feel this way? Am I just being contrary? I’m a middle-aged woman.
Reasons for Disliking Popular Figures
Recently, someone asked me why they have a hard time with Shohei Ohtani, Yuzuru
Hanyu, and Masaharu Fukuyama. They mentioned feeling a certain aversion to popular figures who are praised by those around them. To be honest, I can relate to those feelings. Looking back, I also found myself stepping back from things that everyone liked during my school days. Especially when friends passionately discussed popular idols, I often wondered why they were so excited. I believe there’s no need to conform to what others enjoy just because I don’t feel the same way. It’s more important to value your own emotions.
The Influence of Media and Personal Sensation
Indeed, I find myself questioning the media’s tendency to elevate these figures. For instance, when I watched Hanyu’s performance, I was impressed by the technical skill, but for some reason, I didn’t feel exhilarated. I think Ohtani’s home runs are amazing, but they don’t connect with my emotions in any meaningful way. Similarly, while I recognize that Fukuyama’s songs are good, there’s a lingering discomfort within me. As those around me rave about how wonderful these individuals are, I find myself pondering, “Why is that?” I feel there’s no need to ignore my own sensations and force myself to like popular figures. In fact, cherishing these feelings could serve as an opportunity for self-reflection.
Time to Value Yourself
I’ve thought, “Indifference might be the best approach,” but I don’t see the time spent contemplating as wasted. It’s important to acknowledge what I truly feel rather than convincing myself to like something. I’ve felt a bit lighter after freeing myself from the belief that I must like someone just because they are popular. Personally, I rarely watch TV, which often leaves me at a loss for small talk. When a topic does arise, I often find myself saying, “Oh, that reminds me…” to dodge the conversation. Interestingly, when the discussion turns to those I find challenging, I instinctively want to change the subject. Perhaps that makes me a bit contrary too.
Value Your Emotions
For that reason, I feel it’s essential to honor my emotions. There’s no need to be ashamed of disliking popular figures; understanding those feelings could lead to greater self-awareness. Regardless of what others say, trusting your own sensations and not forcing yourself is most important. So, what do you think? I would love to hear about your experiences with disliking popular figures and your thoughts on those emotions in the comments. There’s likely a shared understanding to be found.
