Question from a reader:
When thinking about Ai Mogami, are we all praying for her soul?
Reflecting on Ai Mogami
Recently, I heard the tragic news about Ai Mogami, and my heart aches. It is incredibly shocking that she passed away at such a young age of 22. This event makes me reflect deeply on the weight of human life. There
are various opinions about her life and the circumstances surrounding her, but personally, I feel that merely praying for her soul is not enough. Of course, there is sympathy for the problems and background she faced. However, I can also understand the view that she brought some of this upon herself. It is true that she may have had choices that led her down this path.
Influence of Upbringing and Choices
Knowing about her upbringing, it seems she grew up in an environment where pursuing conventional happiness was difficult. There were likely influences from her parents and societal pressures as well. When we are young, it can be hard to understand how much our choices can impact our lives. I remember discussing dreams for the future with friends during my university days, saying, “I want to be like this when I grow up!” but reality is rarely that simple. Because I too was inexperienced, I feel I can somewhat understand the conflicts and struggles she faced. Sometimes, having too many options can make it even harder to decide. In those moments, having someone who says, “You can choose this,” can be crucial. Perhaps she needed someone like that in her life.
The Meaning of Praying for Her Soul
When we say, “I pray for her soul,” it’s important to consider the feelings behind those words. While I cannot understand everything about her life and choices, I believe her time on this earth held meaning. Therefore, I want to remember her in a way that honors her memory and conveys something to future generations. In our society, many people share circumstances similar to hers. Turning our attention to those individuals and extending a helping hand might be the greatest tribute we can pay to her. I also feel that her parents and those around her should have been more supportive and caring. Lastly, I would love to hear what everyone else thinks. Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments so we can reflect together.
