Reader’s Question:
I saw someone who defamed Chiemi Hori saying they were a “fan,” but I wonder why they became an anti-fan. Personally, I’m the type of person who doesn’t even want to see the name of someone I dislike, so I can’t understand that psychology. If they check daily, does that mean they were indeed a fan?
From Fan to Anti-Fan: A Struggle of the Heart
Recently, I came across discussions about Chiemi Hori, which made me reflect on some things. I was honestly surprised to see people who defamed
her claiming to have been “fans.” I couldn’t understand why they changed so drastically. I personally love comedy, especially manzai and stand-up, and I can’t help but laugh when I watch them. That’s why I’m particularly curious about the psychology behind how fans become anti-fans. I once felt disappointed with a comedian I liked, but I find it hard to imagine turning that into hatred. On the contrary, I thought it was normal to want to support someone even more upon discovering a new side to them.
Jealousy, Sympathy, and the Darkness Within
According to reader comments, it seems that some people initially became fans out of sympathy, but gradually turned to jealousy. It’s true that when others appear to be happy, it can lead to comparisons with our own circumstances. I remember during my university days feeling a twinge of “why not me” as I watched my friends achieve success. Such feelings can unknowingly cause us pain. Especially with the rise of social media, seeing others’ successes right in front of us seems to amplify those emotions. There have been times when I looked at a friend’s posts and thought, “He looks so happy, but what about me?” In those moments, I would often find myself putting myself down, falling into a negative loop of “I’m not worth it.”
Love Turns to Hate
There’s a saying, “Love turns to hate,” and I think it resonates deeply. The love we have for someone can indeed transform into significant anger when we feel betrayed. I recall being heartbroken as a child when a favorite anime character took an unexpected turn in the story. That really hurt. However, ultimately, it’s a matter of one’s own heart. How we handle our emotions is what truly matters. When I feel stressed, I try to refresh myself by watching comedy or talking with friends. I’ve come to realize that maintaining the balance of my own heart is essential.
What Do You Think?
Have you ever experienced suddenly disliking someone you once liked? I would love to hear what reasons led to that change. If you have any tips on how to overcome such emotional struggles or refresh yourself through laughter, please share!
