Question from a reader:
Watanabe Nagisa-san, Regarding the phrase “living in the shadows for a lifetime,” I believe expressing the lives of those who are mentally suffering as ‘shadows’ is inappropriate. Such phrasing seems to disregard the feelings of those involved. Shouldn’t we show more consideration?
Reflecting on the term ‘shadows’
Recently, I saw that Watanabe Nagisa-san’s phrase “living in the
shadows for a lifetime” has become a topic of discussion. Honestly, when I first heard that phrase, it troubled me a bit. Is it really appropriate to describe someone suffering mentally as ‘shadows’?
Recalling my own experiences
Looking back, there was a time a few years ago when a friend faced mental health issues. He was always cheerful and had a knack for making everyone laugh, yet he carried a significant darkness within. One day, when he opened up about his feelings, I could sense his “loneliness of not being understood,” and I nearly shed tears. I thought about how sad it would be if he had to hear himself described as ‘shadows.’ He wasn’t in the ‘shadows’; he was merely walking at his own pace. That’s why I believe Watanabe-san needs to consider how her words might resonate with others.
Feeling the power of words
Words truly hold power. Personally, I love comedy and sometimes use humor to alleviate my own painful feelings, but I also feel it’s essential to be mindful of the words we choose. Especially when addressing those struggling with mental health, I wish for more gentle language to be used. My friend was able to gradually move forward by expressing his feelings through laughter. Therefore, I think it’s crucial to be attentive not only to the power of humor but also to how we use our words.
Share your thoughts
Now that I’ve shared my feelings, how do you all feel? I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences regarding the term ‘shadows’ in the comments. I hope we can help each other understand the feelings of those facing mental health challenges a little better. Let’s find words that can lighten our hearts together.
