Question from a reader:
I am troubled by the changes in my wife’s face. In her 20s and 30s, she was often compared to Okuhira Megumi and Kashii Yuu, but now that she is in her 40s, people say she resembles Becky. Should I be pleased about this?
Considering the Changes in My Wife’s Face
Recently, a friend consulted me about
his wife’s changing appearance as she ages. He mentioned that while she was once compared to Okuhira Megumi and Kashii Yuu, now she is said to resemble Becky. Honestly, hearing this made me reflect on the weight of the phrase “you resemble someone.”
The Meaning of Resemblance
Being told that you resemble someone can evoke complex emotions. It isn’t necessarily a good thing to be likened to someone, nor is it inherently bad. For instance, Becky has a strong image of brightness and energy. From that perspective, resembling her might not be a negative thing at all. Of course, what matters most is how his wife feels about this comparison. In the past, I too have been told by friends that I resemble someone. I felt pleased at the time, but I also experienced pressure from that same resemblance. This is why I want to understand the emotions behind such comparisons.
Beauty Standards Change
As we age, our standards of beauty evolve. The facial features considered “beautiful” in youth may change in definition as we grow older. Personally, I have been making an effort to discover my own beauty as I age. There have been moments that made me realize how important it is to have confidence. It is essential to understand how my friend’s wife feels and how she perceives her own beauty. The depth of his love for her and how much he cherishes her should also positively impact her heart.
Share Your Experiences
I believe many people experience similar concerns. It could be interesting to share how we feel about the changes in our faces and bodies as we age. I myself sometimes find I arrive early or indulge in too many sweet snacks. I love those little mishaps that turn into funny stories. If you have similar experiences or beauty concerns that come with aging, I would love to hear them in the comments. I hope we can have a fun conversation together.
