Question from Readers:
Despite being dedicated to their children’s education, Shizuka Kudo, Ai Kato, and Yuukorin often face criticism. On the other hand, the Tsujis, who seem to have a more relaxed approach to education, are viewed positively. What could be the reason for this?
Differences in Educational Philosophy and Background of Their Evaluation
Recently, it has become noticeable that while
Shizuka Kudo, Ai Kato, and Yuukorin invest heavily in their children’s education, they still attract criticism. In contrast, the Tsujis, who appear to have a more lenient educational policy, are viewed favorably. This phenomenon is likely influenced by various factors beyond mere jealousy.
Differences in Educational Style
Shizuka Kudo and Ai Kato demonstrate their commitment to education by choosing international or private schools for their children. Such choices reflect their economic backgrounds and differing values regarding education. Conversely, the Tsujis seem to adopt a more open and relaxed educational approach, which may contribute to the positive perception surrounding them.
Jealousy and Social Evaluation
Indeed, the criticism faced by those who prioritize education often stems from underlying feelings of jealousy. Having the financial means to send children to international or private schools can evoke envy among the general public. Personally, I sometimes experience complex emotions toward those I perceive as “successful” in my circle. For instance, hearing that friends are sending their kids to private schools can trigger feelings of anxiety or inferiority in me.
The Appeal of the Tsujis
On the other hand, the Tsujis are viewed positively largely due to their approachability and relatability. Their daily interactions with their children and joyful moments, shared through social media, resonate with many people. This relatable demeanor likely fosters empathy among a broad audience. I also value the time spent laughing and playing with friends and their children, as it is incredibly important.
Conclusion
Ultimately, perspectives and styles of parenting are diverse, with each family finding methods that suit them best. While critical opinions exist, how parents choose to raise their children is their prerogative, and it is not something others should judge. What parenting philosophy do you hold? If you have experiences of being influenced by the evaluations of those around you, I would love to hear about them in the comments.
