Question from a reader:
I’ve heard that Devi Fujin has made critical comments about Marian in the past regarding divorce and her way of speaking. Considering the current issues of power harassment and violence, I can understand why Marian referred to Devi Fujin as “Devil Fujin.” In such cases, is it reasonable for her to say such things?
Reflecting on the
Relationship Between Devi Fujin and Marian
Recently, the past interactions between Devi Fujin and Marian have become a topic of discussion. Specifically, Marian calling Devi Fujin “Devil Fujin” is seen as understandable in light of the current issues of power harassment and violence. Certainly, the backdrop of such words is likely filled with each person’s experiences and emotions.
The Background of Divorce and Criticism
It is said that Devi Fujin has thrown harsh words at Marian in the past. It makes one ponder whether this was merely a verbal exchange or if there is a deeper meaning behind it. Compared to today’s environment, the past may have been a bit harsher, but that does not justify such behavior. During my university days, I sometimes defended others with reasons like “it was a tough era” or “she had her struggles.” However, looking back now, I realize that those were merely excuses. While understanding someone’s past, we cannot ignore the impact their actions have on others.
Marian’s Story
Marian is famously known for being rejected by Matsudaira Ken. Just imagining how devastated she must have felt brings a pain to my heart. However, the story of how she was saved by an ordinary man and eventually had a Cinderella-like marriage is truly dramatic. Starting from a relationship with someone outside the spotlight, having children, and ultimately ending in divorce—life is indeed full of ups and downs. I also have experienced being rejected by a friend in the past. At the time, it felt like my heart was breaking, but now I realize that those experiences may have shaped who I am today. The pain of heartbreak sometimes teaches us valuable lessons in growth.
The Reason Behind Calling Her “Devil Fujin”
The background behind Marian calling Devi Fujin “Devil Fujin” likely stems from her own suffering and frustrations. It’s not hard to imagine the amount of stress she must have been under while facing the expectations and criticisms from those around her. Thus, it’s understandable that such words would emerge. However, words hold power. No matter how difficult the situation, expressions that hurt others should be avoided. I too sometimes forget to choose my words wisely when emotions run high, but looking back, I often regret it.
In Conclusion
While discussing these matters, I have been able to reflect on my own experiences and emotions. Human relationships are complex, and past actions can influence the present. Many of you may have had similar experiences. I would love for you to share your memories or opinions in the comments, no matter how small. I hope that through our conversation, we can find some comfort together.
