Question from a reader:
I saw someone who defamed Hori Chiemi say they were a fan at one point. Why did that person become an anti-fan? I’m the type who doesn’t want to see the name of someone I dislike, so I can’t quite understand that mentality. If they go to see her every day, does that mean they were still a fan?
Psychological Shift from Fan to Anti-Fan
While chatting with friends, Hori Chiemi came up in conversation. It’s quite a strange phenomenon when someone who was once a
fan suddenly becomes an anti-fan. Hearing such stories made me reflect on various aspects of this shift.
Jealousy and Fan Psychology
The reason that person started defaming Hori Chiemi likely stemmed from sympathy at first. Many people were aware of her struggles and supported her out of a desire to help. However, seeing her recover might have shaken their sense of superiority. Stepping back from being a fan and allowing jealousy to take root is a common occurrence. I, too, have felt complicated emotions when I saw an artist I used to like achieving success. Deep down, I wanted to think, “He is where he is because I supported him.” But when he became a distant figure, I felt like something inside me began to crumble.
Loneliness and Defamation
I believe the loneliness felt by those who defame others is also a contributing factor. When someone wants their feelings to be accepted by someone else, but that person seems happier, it can lead to aggressive behavior. Personally, I have experienced feelings of jealousy toward friends with whom I had grown distant on social media, so I can relate to that sentiment.
Excessive Affection Leading to Hatred
There is a saying, “Excessive affection leads to a hundredfold hatred,” and I think that rings true. The more you like someone, the greater your expectations become, and when you feel betrayed, the backlash is intense. Public figures like Hori Chiemi are particularly susceptible to these effects. I’ve had experiences where I grew to dislike something I once loved. When I found out that a character from an anime I adored as a child actually had a bad personality, it was shocking. However, looking back now, I realize that those emotions at the time contributed significantly to my growth.
What’s Your Experience?
So, what do you all think? If you have experienced a shift from liking something to disliking it or have reasons for becoming an anti-fan, I’d love to hear about it in the comments. There might be many relatable stories out there. Sometimes, casual conversations can lead to new discoveries, and that’s quite interesting!
