Reader’s Question:
Regarding the former announcer who is said to be a victim of Nakai-kun, I heard that she received an invitation from Nakai-kun, but in the end, no one gathered, the location wasn’t decided, and they ended up alone in Nakai-kun’s apartment. If it were me, I think I could have said, “Let’s do it again when the members can
gather,” considering that the other person is Nakai-kun, as it might cause trouble if rumors spread. No matter how much it’s framed as “an extension of work,” being alone with someone is truly scary.
Thoughts on Nakai-kun and the former announcer
Recently, the topic of Nakai-kun and the former announcer has been trending online. Hearing that she ended up alone with Nakai-kun after his invitation honestly pains my heart. When I was younger, I thought meeting a celebrity like the ones I saw on TV was a dream, so just imagining her position makes my heart race.
Could she refuse dining with Nakai-kun?
I can’t imagine whether she could have said, “Let’s do it again when the members can gather.” If someone like Nakai-kun invites you, you’d naturally be filled with excitement and nervousness, making it hard to stay calm. In fact, it’s questionable whether she had a relationship where she could say “next time.” Especially considering her position as a young announcer and the work-related dynamics, it might have been difficult to refuse.
Are psychological techniques at play?
There might be psychological techniques like the foot-in-the-door technique, which we often see in movies and dramas, being used in real life. In such situations, it’s tough to say no. Particularly in the entertainment industry, where hierarchies are strict, there may be circumstances that force individuals to become yes-men. I believe there might have been a part of her that trusted Nakai-kun’s character. He has a bright and kind image on television, so she might have been surprised by the gap when they actually met. Conversely, I think her feeling of “safety” came from that trust.
My experiences and thoughts
In my own youth, I often met big names and was so nervous that I couldn’t say anything. Even now, I wonder why I couldn’t express my opinions more back then. Because of that, I can somewhat relate to her feelings. It’s really difficult to care about how others perceive you and be considerate not to be rude. Speaking of which, I remember going to a famous comedian’s live show with friends. When I tried to ask for his autograph, I was so nervous that I couldn’t say, “Please give me an autograph!” Looking back on that, she might have felt some kind of pressure too.
What do you think?
How do you feel after hearing this story? How would you handle an encounter with a celebrity like Nakai-kun? If you have had similar experiences, I would love to hear about them. Please share your thoughts and stories in the comments. I’m looking forward to hearing everyone’s experiences!
