Question from readers:
There have been mixed comments regarding a video of Tomomi Itano scolding her child. When a usually quiet child starts acting up in public or isn’t behaving as expected, parents can suddenly become frustrated. Do those who criticize such parents harbor a sense of disdain towards them?
Parents Scolding Their Children and the Reactions
Recently, it seems that
a video of Tomomi Itano scolding her child has become a topic of discussion. It’s common for parents to feel frustrated when their usually calm child starts to act out in public or doesn’t behave as they wish. I recall feeling a complex mix of emotions when I saw my mother scold me in public during my childhood. However, observing the mixed reactions to this video, I feel that celebrities inevitably attract criticism. Among those who hold critical views of Itano, there may be individuals who have never experienced parenting. They might not understand the challenges of raising a child or the emotions that can lead a parent to react in such a way.
The Importance of Understanding Parental Struggles
The difficulties of parenting are often not fully grasped until one experiences it firsthand. For instance, during my time working part-time at a judicial scrivener’s office, I once encountered a customer who brought their child along. While waiting, the child began to act up, and the mother desperately tried to calm them. Initially, she handled the situation calmly, but as time went on, her frustration grew, and she ended up scolding the child. I remember how all the eyes in the room turned towards them in that moment. The mother looked embarrassed, but once the child stopped crying, she quickly returned to a smile, which left a lasting impression on me.
We Are All Growing Together
The struggles and emotional outbursts that come with being a parent are experiences that everyone can relate to. How we perceive these situations often depends on our personal experiences. Although I do not have children myself, observing the parents around me makes it clear how much effort they put into raising their children. Therefore, rather than criticizing, I believe it is essential to adopt an understanding attitude. So, what do you all think? If you have any interesting stories or experiences related to parenting, please share them in the comments. I would love for this to be a space where we can learn from each other.
