Question from a reader:
There seems to be mixed opinions regarding the video of Itano Tomomi scolding her child, and I’ve been thinking about it a bit. It seems that parents who suddenly become irritable, like Itano-san, often struggle when their usually quiet children fuss or don’t behave as expected while out. Do those making critical comments harbor a sense of
aversion toward such parents?
Parental Discipline and Its Background
Recently, Itano Tomomi’s video of scolding her child has become a hot topic. Amidst the mixed comments, it’s worth contemplating the ways parents discipline and the psychology behind it. It’s understandable that parents get frustrated when their usually calm children start acting up in public. I can relate; when a friend brought their child over to play, I couldn’t help but smile wryly and say, “That must be tough.” Parenting is indeed challenging.
The Realities of Parenting
It’s true that many of those making critical comments may not have any parenting experience. Like my friends, people without children sometimes struggle to understand a parent’s feelings and circumstances. When a child starts to fuss, a parent inevitably feels pressured and aware of the surrounding eyes. Maintaining composure in such situations can be incredibly difficult. I remember when I was working part-time at a judicial scrivener’s office, a parent and child came in. I couldn’t help but laugh as I watched the child running around the office while the mother desperately chased after them. Initially, the mother was calm, but as her child became more unruly, I could see her frustration mounting. Eventually, once the child settled down a bit, the mother smiled and said, “I’m sorry, Mommy is tired too.” In that moment, I felt that parents are human too.
Between Criticism and Understanding
Reading the comments on Itano’s video, it seems there are certain expectations and ideals placed on parents. Especially for public figures, there might be an unspoken pressure to be perfect. Nevertheless, parents are emotional beings who sometimes scold and sometimes show kindness. Because there’s no one right way to parent, various opinions will naturally arise. While I don’t have parenting experience myself, observing my friends and family has allowed me to gradually understand their struggles and joys. Therefore, I think it’s challenging to easily criticize someone else’s parenting. Finally, if you have experiences or opinions about parenting or ways to discipline children, please share them in the comments. If you have relatable stories or surprising insights, it could lead to a delightful conversation.
