Question from a Reader:
I’ve often heard that people who speak ill of others are disliked, but what do you think about those who spread negative comments about celebrities online using their smartphones?
The Impact of Online Negative Comments
Recently, while having tea with a friend at a café, we started discussing negative comments made online. Our conversation particularly focused on
people who criticize celebrities. Honestly, neither of us has a very positive impression of such behavior. What my friend said struck a chord with me. He mentioned, “Don’t you think people who speak ill of others are just deluding themselves into feeling superior?” Indeed, in this era where it’s so easy to share opinions via smartphones, anyone can express their thoughts. However, when those thoughts turn into negative comments, it often comes off as mere stress relief. I occasionally come across negative remarks on social media, and each time, I find it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
Negative Comments as a Reflection of Self
Upon reflection, it seems that those who speak ill of others are ultimately reflecting their own inner selves. In my younger years, I would vent with friends, feeling relieved afterward, but now I find that time spent on such negativity feels wasted. Especially since becoming a parent, I’ve been more mindful of the values I want to teach my child and have realized I don’t want to model negative behavior for him. Oh, and I remember watching a comedian on TV who had a hilarious bit about this. He joked, “Instead of wasting time speaking ill of others, why not focus on improving yourself?” It made me laugh because it’s true—if you’ve got the energy to criticize others, that energy would be much better spent on self-improvement.
Final Thoughts
Ultimately, the spread of negative comments online might stem from our own desires. The lack of praise and the increase in opposing views likely reflect human psychology. However, despite this, I still want to find ways to promote positive discussions. What do you all think? If you have any memorable experiences or thoughts about negative comments online, please share them in the comments! I would love to hear a variety of opinions!
