Reader’s Question:
Is there a risk of losing out by admitting mistakes and apologizing? Recently, I saw that Fuwa-chan was sidelined by the media after acknowledging her error. On the other hand, it seems like people like Einshutain’s Inada, Nagano Mei, and Tanaka Kei are sticking to their lies without admitting their mistakes. It’s often said that “lies will eventually be
exposed,” but is it more beneficial to stick with a lie if there’s no evidence to contradict it?
The Risks of Apologizing and Related Stories
I recently came across news that Fuwa-chan was sidelined by the media after admitting her mistakes. Honestly, I wonder if comedians like her sometimes lose out by apologizing, especially when going viral is important. Conversely, seeing people like Einshutain’s Inada, Nagano Mei, and Tanaka Kei seemingly sticking to their lies raises the question, “Is this really the right way?” I remember a time when I stood up my friend and later thought, “Maybe I should apologize.” In the end, while I was on the phone intending to apologize, my friend, who had been waiting for me, just laughed it off and said, “Oh, don’t worry about it. You just wanted to eat your snacks, right?” It made me realize that lying is exhausting, and the fear of being found out is quite stressful.
The Downsides of Lying and the Importance of Honesty
As noted in the comments, the biggest downside of lying is how it affects one’s life and happiness. For example, in the world of comedy, lying often comes back to haunt you eventually. The essence of comedy is based on trust between people. Also, the story of Shohei Ohtani is truly inspiring. The fact that he has been picking up trash since he was young shows his humility and commitment to his values. It makes me think about starting with something small myself. Life is longer than we often realize, and continuing to lie or deceive can lead to significant stress down the line. Sometimes, I rush and keep my friends waiting, but those small mistakes remind me of the importance of staying honest.
Share Your Experiences
Have you ever felt that you “lost out by apologizing” or, conversely, have you had experiences where “being honest paid off”? I look forward to hearing your stories in the comments!
