Question from a reader:
Should an MC not talk about themselves?
The Role of an MC and the Balance of Self-Disclosure
Recently, I had the opportunity to act as an MC at a wedding with a friend. Although I was nervous, it turned out to be a memorable experience as we successfully guided the ceremony. During this time, I found myself
pondering just how much personal information an MC should share. I believe the primary role of an MC is to enhance the guests’ experience. Especially at weddings, where the bride and groom are the main focus, lengthy personal anecdotes from the MC can sometimes detract from the atmosphere. For instance, if I overshare and start saying something like, “Actually, I’ve also had a wedding…” the bride and groom might be left thinking, “Aren’t we the ones being celebrated right now?”
The Freedom of Online Platforms
However, in today’s video streaming culture, it’s not uncommon for MCs to share their own experiences. Unlike traditional television, online platforms demand a style that resonates with the audience’s preferences. By sharing personal stories, an MC can bridge the gap with viewers and create a sense of familiarity. While chatting with my friend, we laughed, saying, “If that boosts the views, then it’s a win!” In fact, I recently listened to a podcast where the MC shared their own stories of failure. Her self-deprecating humor made me laugh, and I could feel her authenticity. This made the episode memorable, making me want to listen to it multiple times.
Conclusion on Finding Balance
Ultimately, whether an MC shares personal stories depends on the atmosphere and purpose of the event. By highlighting the guests while weaving in their own narratives, an MC can create a more engaging experience. The key is not to lean too heavily in one direction. It’s ideal to seamlessly incorporate personal anecdotes without neglecting the bride, groom, or guests. What do you think? I would love to hear your experiences as an MC and how you manage your own storytelling. I look forward to some fun interactions in the comments!
