Considering the Relationship Between “Thank You” and Sexual Assault
Recently, I came across some opinions regarding the reports about Nakai Masahiro. One opinion caught my attention: “Since the woman said ‘thank you’ later, there must have been consent.” I find this way of thinking quite questionable. In fact, I personally experienced a situation at a friend’s wedding where I was
told “thank you,” and I instinctively replied, “No, thank you.” While it’s nice to receive expressions of gratitude, there are various backgrounds and contexts behind such words. As mentioned in the report, it remains unclear if those words were actually spoken, and I don’t think we can simply conclude consent based on a single phrase.
Understanding Human Psychology
In situations of intense tension or fear, it is possible for someone to say “thank you.” I too have found myself smiling or being considerate of others even in unpleasant situations. When someone says “thank you” in such moments, it’s hard to discern whether the sentiment is genuine gratitude or simply a protective response. As indicated by the Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare, “even if there is a submissive attitude, that does not negate the possibility of harm,” which I believe is a crucial point. We cannot overlook the psychology of the victim. It’s essential to understand what the other person is feeling or thinking, regardless of the situation.
Reflecting on Nakai’s Response
Nakai’s statement that “the entire responsibility lies with me” seems to carry significant weight. His lack of argument or dispute might suggest he understands something important. Rather than relying solely on the surrounding opinions or narratives, I believe the truth may lie in his reactions. Personally, I do not think that just because someone says “thank you,” it necessarily means that the act was consensual. In fact, making judgments based solely on words can be very dangerous.
In Conclusion
What do you think? Can the mere presence of the phrase “thank you” completely negate the possibility of sexual assault? I would love to hear your opinions. I believe it’s important for us to consider these issues, as they can serve as a catalyst for deeper discussions in our communities, so please share your thoughts in the comments.
