Question from a reader:
Is it wrong to write a fake name when waiting in line at restaurants? Recently, I’ve heard stories of people whose home addresses were revealed because of name tags at their part-time jobs or full names used for reservations, and it’s made me really anxious. I dislike writing my name where others can see it. What should
I do?

Considering the Use of Fake Names in Restaurants

It seems that more and more people are feeling anxious about writing their names when waiting in line or making reservations at restaurants and facilities. I understand the feeling of not wanting others to see your name or personal information. I also feel that protecting privacy is important. So, let’s explore this issue, considering legal perspectives as well.

Risks of Writing Your Name

First, regarding writing your name at restaurants, it’s important to be cautious about the possibility of others seeing it. For example, if your full name is visible on a name tag or list to other customers, the risk of it being known by family, friends, or acquaintances increases. Such invasions of privacy can be a significant concern, especially for parents with small children. I myself have had an experience where my name was visible to others when I made a reservation. At the time, I didn’t think much of it, but looking back, I realized it felt a bit uncomfortable.

Legal Perspective on Using Fake Names

Now, let’s look at the legal perspective on using fake names. Under Japanese law, using a fake name is generally not illegal. However, it can become problematic depending on the situation. For instance, using a fake name to enter into a contract or for fraudulent activities is clearly against the law. In the context of waiting in line at a restaurant, simply using a fake name usually does not violate any laws. However, it could potentially damage the trust between you and other customers or staff, so it’s important to think carefully about it.

Ways to Protect Your Privacy

So, how can you use restaurants while protecting your privacy? Let’s consider a few methods.

Using a Fake Name

This is the simplest method. For example, instead of writing “Taro Yamada,” you could write just “Yamada” or “Taro.” This way, even if others see it, the risk of being identified is reduced.

Using a Phone Number

Recently, more restaurants are managing waitlists based on phone numbers. By using this method, you won’t need to write your name. However, be cautious, as your phone number could also be seen by others.

Using Advance Reservations

If the restaurant allows advance reservations, you can book by phone or online. In this case, when you arrive at the restaurant, you only need to say your name, which reduces the risk of it being seen by others.

Conclusion

Feeling anxious about writing your name at restaurants is completely natural. I understand the desire to protect your privacy, as I have had similar concerns myself. While using a fake name is generally not illegal, it’s important to act carefully considering the trust with other customers and communication with staff. Let’s find ways to enjoy dining out while protecting our privacy. Finally, I believe that if restaurants also make efforts to respect customers’ privacy, more people would feel comfortable using their services. As users, we should also strive to create an environment where we can enjoy ourselves while protecting our personal information.