Question from the reader:
I commented on Shokotan’s post and ended up getting blocked. I admit my comment may have been a bit extreme, but I wonder if it really warranted being blocked. Was my comment wrong? (The post has been deleted.) By the way, I’m not criticizing the fact that I bought the Switch 2 from a reseller.
Reflecting on
Being Blocked by Shokotan
Getting blocked after commenting on Shokotan’s post can be a painful experience. While my comment may have been a bit intense, it’s only natural to question whether it was severe enough to merit being blocked. I remember a time when I made a light-hearted joke on social media, only to find the other person unexpectedly upset. I can definitely relate to how you feel.
Surprising Reactions I’ve Experienced
For instance, there was a time when I was chatting with a friend at a café. He was talking about his favorite anime character, and jokingly I said, “That character isn’t attractive at all.” To my surprise, he reacted seriously and said, “Don’t say that!” It made me laugh, but I realized that for him, that character held a special significance. Even after I apologized, the atmosphere remained awkward for a while. Ultimately, choosing our words and timing can be incredibly challenging. Social media, in particular, makes it hard to gauge the other person’s intentions or emotions; sometimes, we don’t have the luxury of considering the potential reactions our comments might provoke.
What Should Have Been Done
I think it’s essential to reflect on how your comment towards Shokotan was perceived. Even if it wasn’t a critical opinion, you can never be sure how the other person will take it, especially when dealing with someone popular who may be more sensitive to various opinions. It’s possible that your comment did hurt her feelings. However, expressing your thoughts isn’t inherently bad. Next time, it might be beneficial to choose your words more carefully. For example, saying something like, “I had some thoughts after seeing that post…” allows you to convey your opinion while respecting the other person’s feelings.
Share Your Experiences
Now, have any of you had similar experiences? Communicating on social media can sometimes be tricky, but that’s also part of what makes it interesting. If you have any funny stories or effective communication methods that worked well for you, I’d love to hear them! I’m looking forward to reading everyone’s experiences. I’ll be waiting in the comments section!
