Question from a reader:
I was driving on a narrow road and my side mirror hit another car’s side mirror. The other driver was an elderly man who was initially stopped, but he moved forward when a car approached. I also had to move forward because another car was coming from the front. After the accident, I hurried to finish my
errands and returned to the scene, but the other driver was gone and no one was there. I couldn’t tell my parents about this and ended up lying to them. I’m struggling with what to do in this situation. Should I be honest and contact the police?

Response and Legal Perspective After a Traffic Accident

Hello! Today, I would like to discuss a somewhat delicate topic: traffic accidents. I will focus specifically on situations like the one you recently faced, so please bear with me for a moment.

The Situation of the Accident and Your Feelings

First, let’s think a bit about the accident you experienced. The contact between side mirrors on a narrow road and the subsequent actions of the other party. It’s a very common situation that the elderly man was initially stopped but moved forward when a car came. I can empathize with that; narrow roads are indeed difficult to drive on. However, the fact that the other driver was not there when you returned to the scene and that you lied to your parents must be weighing heavily on your mind. Accidents are unexpected events, and it can be hard to make calm decisions in those moments. I have also experienced a minor collision before, and I was truly in a panic at that time.

Legal Perspective on the Accident

Now, let’s consider this situation from a legal standpoint. When a traffic accident occurs, it is generally required to exchange contact information with the other party and notify both insurance companies. However, since the other driver was not present, the circumstances change a bit. First, the fact that you could not confirm the other party’s presence is an important point when reporting the accident. It is generally recommended to contact the police promptly after an accident, especially in cases of personal injury or property damage, as police involvement is necessary. Even if the other party is absent, calling the police to document the accident is a wise decision.

Reporting the Accident

Regarding your consideration of whether to be honest and contact the police, this is a very important decision. Being honest is the right approach both legally and ethically. If you do not report the current situation to the police, problems may arise later. For example, if the other party remembers your license plate number later, they could file a claim for damages against you. In that case, if you have not reported the accident, you could find yourself in a very unfavorable position.

The Importance of Talking to Your Parents

Additionally, lying to your parents about this must also be a burden on your mind. Hiding the truth can lead to bigger problems down the line. Being honest not only lightens your own feelings but also strengthens your trust with your family. Your parents likely want you to talk to them about anything because they care about you.

Sorting Out Your Feelings After the Accident

Sorting out your feelings after an accident is very difficult. When I experienced it in the past, I was filled with anxiety and didn’t know what to do. However, by thinking calmly and taking action, I gradually felt better. You too may find that accepting the facts and taking one step at a time can help lighten your emotional burden.

Conclusion

Finally, let me summarize my advice in response to your question. First, report the details of the accident to the police as accurately as possible, and contact your insurance company if necessary. I also recommend being honest with your parents. This will be a step toward ensuring a smoother life for you in the future. Traffic accidents are truly unexpected events that can happen to anyone. Many people can understand and empathize with your situation. Above all, it is important not to be too hard on yourself and to move forward positively. I hope your heart feels a little lighter. Well then, see you next time! Drive safely and enjoy your driving life!