Question from a reader:
I’m worried that even after graduating from Keio, I might end up having my life ruined by a man, just like Watanabe Nagisa. Wouldn’t that make my graduation meaningless? What do you think?
Concerns About Having Your Life Ruined
Reflecting on the reader’s question about the anxieties after graduating from Keio, I can understand the worry that
comes from hearing examples like Watanabe Nagisa’s. It’s chilling to think that after fully enjoying university life, someone could ultimately ruin it for you. In my own experience working part-time at a judicial scrivener’s office, I often witness people’s life choices. One day, a young female client came in, and as I listened to her story, it became clear she was struggling with a relationship with a man. She was trying to build her career but seemed to be caught up in the ups and downs of love. It was striking to hear her say through tears, “If I had been stronger, this might not have happened.”
It’s Important to Value Your Own Life
Every time I hear stories like this, I feel the significance of valuing one’s own life. Of course, love is a wonderful experience, but it shouldn’t come at the cost of your own growth and career. Just because you graduate doesn’t mean everything will be perfect; in fact, new challenges and choices await you. Personally, during my university days, I had moments of laughter with friends, studied together before exams, and sometimes found myself arriving too early and just lounging in a café. Looking back, those seemingly trivial moments have become precious memories. There were failures and worries, but I was able to learn from those experiences.
I Want to Hear Your Experiences
In the end, I believe that regardless of which university you graduate from, the choices you make are what truly matter. It’s important not to be swayed by the opinions and situations around you, and to avoid losing sight of yourself. If you have similar experiences or challenges you’ve overcome, I would love for you to share them in the comments. Let’s think together about how to protect ourselves.
