Question from a reader:
My sister lost her wallet, and it seems someone found it and turned it in to the police. The person who picked it up wants to know our information but also says they don’t need a reward. If we go to pick it up, it seems we need to provide some information. There wasn’t much in the
wallet, but should we avoid going to get it? Also, I don’t understand why they want our information, so I would appreciate it if you could explain that reason objectively.

Reasons the Finder Wants Information and Whether to Go Pick It Up

Hello! Today, I’d like to talk about the issue regarding your sister’s wallet, which has encountered a bit of trouble. Losing a wallet is really stressful, isn’t it? Even if there wasn’t much inside, the wallet itself can contain important information.

The Finder’s Feelings

First of all, the fact that the person who found it says, “no reward is necessary,” is a wonderful gesture. In a world where losing things has become commonplace, we must be grateful for those who act out of kindness. Now, regarding their reason for wanting information, there are actually several possibilities. 1. Confirming the Owner of the Wallet: The finder may want to confirm that your sister is indeed the rightful owner of the wallet. While there may be a name or address written inside, that alone might not be sufficient. If they know her, they may want to avoid any potential trouble. 2. Wanting to Express Gratitude: It’s possible that the finder wants to thank your sister directly. Although they say no reward is necessary, many people still want to say “thank you.” 3. Verifying Personal Information: The finder may want to verify the information on any credit cards or identification found inside the wallet and may intend to contact related parties if necessary.

Legal Perspective on Handling the Wallet

From a legal standpoint, there are laws concerning found property. Generally, in Japan, the “Civil Code” applies. According to the provisions regarding found property in the Civil Code, it is required to turn in found items to the police following prescribed procedures. Since it has already been reported to the police, this person is acting in accordance with the law. Next, if your sister decides to go pick up the wallet, she will need to present some information beforehand to prove that she is the owner. Identification and contact information may be required. This part may be a bit cumbersome, but it is a necessary procedure to comply with the law.

Your Choice on Whether to Go Pick It Up

Now, regarding whether to go pick it up, in my personal opinion, I think it would be better to go if possible. The reason is that having the wallet returned will alleviate your sister’s emotional burden. The anxiety and worry of having lost it will be significantly reduced, making her feel much better. However, if you or your sister feel “anxious,” then I don’t think it’s necessary to force yourselves to go. The finder likely doesn’t want to pressure you into coming.

Points to Consider if You Decide to Go

If you decide to go pick it up, please pay attention to the following points: 1. Prepare Necessary Information: Make sure to have identification and contact information ready. It would be good to anticipate what the finder might want to confirm. 2. Don’t Forget to Express Gratitude: Be sure to thank the person who found it. Bringing a small token of appreciation can help convey your feelings more effectively. 3. Respect Their Feelings: Even if the finder says, “no reward is necessary,” it might feel awkward to insist on giving a gift. Respect their feelings and express your gratitude in a natural way.

Conclusion

Losing a wallet is a highly stressful event, but it’s very fortunate that there’s a possibility of it being returned thanks to the finder. It’s important to follow the proper procedures legally, so please do your best within a reasonable range. I have also lost my wallet in the past, and the sense of relief when it was returned was extraordinary. I hope your sister can experience that sense of relief soon!