Question from a reader:
Do you think fans and talents are similar? I resonate with Nishiwaki-san’s opinion. My sister is a huge fan of SMAP’s Nakai-kun, and she keeps saying about the recent incident, “Wasn’t she the one who liked Nakai-kun more? There’s no way Nakai-kun would invite her.” It’s a bit unsettling to hear. Do women in their twenties really
fall for men in their fifties?
Reflecting on the Fan-Talent Relationship
Recently, a friend asked me about the relationship between fans and talents. He wondered, “Do you think fans and talents are similar?” Honestly, I’ve thought a lot about this topic. Especially when I see my sister completely enamored with Nakai-kun, it sparks some thoughts. My sister strongly asserts, “Wasn’t she the one who liked Nakai-kun more?” regarding the recent incident. To be honest, hearing that is a little scary. It raises the question of whether women in their twenties really could be attracted to men in their fifties. However, perhaps there are times when feelings transcend age differences.
The Depth of Emotions Toward Talents
The passion fans have for their favorite talents can sometimes feel almost religious. Everything about the talent seems special to them. By thinking “there’s no way he would invite her,” they might be trying to protect their idealized image. I often feel something similar for my favorite authors and artists; their works enrich my life and emotions. Thinking back, my experiences working part-time at a judicial scrivener’s office during college made me ponder the fan-talent relationship. A senior at the office was a fan of a certain talent and would chase after his new information daily, which I found endearing. Her passion likely serves as motivation for her work.
Wanting to Share Thoughts
Considering all this, the relationship between fans and talents may not just be a coincidence, but rather, a deep connection exists. This is why I can also understand my sister’s perspective to some extent. However, when the emotions of those around me become excessive, it can sometimes feel frightening. While it’s important to respect fans’ feelings, I believe maintaining a calm perspective is crucial. What do you think? If you have any memorable stories or thoughts about the fan-talent relationship, please share them in the comments. There must be various stories around us.
