Reader’s Question:
While there are many comments that elevate the current Emperor’s family, there are also a lot that belittle the Akishino family. What is gained by doing this? I believe that the current Emperor’s family wouldn’t feel good being praised at the expense of the Akishino family, which is their younger brother’s family. Conversely, the Akishino family likely wouldn’t feel
happy being belittled while the current Emperor’s family is elevated.
Reflections on the Imperial Family and the Akishino Family
Recently, opinions about the current Emperor’s family and the Akishino family have been prominent on social media and online. Many people, including myself, have raised questions about the tendency to uplift the current Emperor’s family while disparaging the Akishino family. I cannot resonate with the kind of self-esteem that is fulfilled by belittling others, no matter the reason.
Self-Esteem and Its Impact on Others
I believe that belittling others for personal satisfaction ultimately leads to harming oneself. Considering that the current Emperor’s family has faced harsh criticism in the past, especially regarding Masako’s health issues, it must be painful for other families to be placed in similar situations. What exactly do they gain by belittling the Akishino family? Recently, while discussing this topic with a friend, he remarked, “There are people who find comfort in others’ misfortunes.” It’s true that some may feel superior when witnessing the failures or hardships of others. However, I cannot see how this leads to true happiness. On the contrary, I worry that such behavior could chill society as a whole.
Emotional Resonance and Its Effects
The increase in criticism directed at the Akishino family cannot be denied, especially due to issues surrounding Komuro-san and educational troubles. However, discussions about these matters often become emotionally charged. People can easily become emotional and lose their ability to make rational judgments. Even in my own experiences as a judicial scrivener, I have seen how emotions can cloud decision-making. I recall a particular case where the client became overly emotional and was unable to think clearly. At that moment, I advised him to take a deep breath to sort out his feelings. After doing so, he regained some composure and was able to analyze the issue calmly. Similarly, I believe we need to sort our emotions and take a rational look at the current Emperor’s family and the Akishino family.
In Conclusion
Opinions about the Imperial family and the Akishino family vary widely, but I feel that belittling others does not elevate oneself. Instead, I wish to support the well-being of the entire family. I want to continue observing them with a calm and warm perspective. What do you think? I would love to hear your opinions and experiences in the comments. Please feel free to share, no matter how small the thought may be.
