Reader’s Question:
Is it narcissistic to like a character I created or designed? Is it strange to fall in love with a character I came up with or designed?
Is It Narcissistic to Love Your Own Creations?
Ah, the age-old question of whether it’s narcissistic to have a fondness for a character
you’ve created. I remember when I first ventured into the world of character design. It was a mix of excitement and trepidation, like stepping into a new coffee shop where you’re unsure if the barista will remember your name by the end of your visit. But let me tell you, there’s something special about pouring your heart into a creation. When I read the reader’s question, I couldn’t help but nod along. The sentiments shared in the comments resonated with me. The idea that it’s somehow “strange” to fall in love with a character you’ve designed seems to overlook the fundamental nature of creativity. Just like a parent lovingly cherishes their child, creators often form deep emotional connections with their characters. It’s not narcissism; it’s a manifestation of our passion and artistic investment.
The Heart of Creation
Take, for example, the user who affectionately referred to their character as “my cute fox-eared girl.” Can you imagine the joy they must feel, seeing her come to life in their imagination? I can relate. I once created a character named Alex who was a quirky, coffee-obsessed psychologist (maybe a bit of wishful thinking on my part). Alex became a vessel for my own thoughts and feelings, and I found myself laughing at his witty remarks like he was a real friend. There were moments when I caught myself daydreaming about his adventures as if he were a part of my life. In the comments, the sentiment of being a “proud parent” shone through. Yes, we might indulge in a bit of “character-parenting” — perhaps more than we should. I mean, who doesn’t enjoy spoiling their creations just a tad? It’s like bringing home a new pet and showering it with affection. I chuckle at the realization that we all have this little bit of “parental bias” towards our creations, and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s our unique way of expressing love and appreciation for our work.
Embracing the Quirks
Of course, as with any relationship, there can be quirks. I still laugh about the time I arrived at a character design workshop way too early, thinking I’d have ample time to perfect my sketches. Instead, I found myself snacking on too many cookies, which left me jittery and more inspired than ever. Funny how those little imperfections can spark creativity, isn’t it? So, for anyone feeling guilty about loving their creations, let me assure you — it’s perfectly normal! Fall in love with your characters, cherish them, and treat them as extensions of yourself. After all, if we don’t love them, who will? Now, I’d love to hear from you! Have you ever felt a strong connection to a character you created? Did you find yourself daydreaming about their life? Share your experiences or any tips you have in the comments below. Let’s celebrate our quirky, creative journeys together!
