Question from a reader:
When Tsuji-chan was raising her eldest daughter, she mentioned that she was too busy to remember much. Do you think it’s possible to cherish and nurture her fifth child while still lacking memories of raising her first? What are your thoughts?
Reflecting on Tsuji-chan’s Parenting Memories
Recently, I heard Tsuji-chan reflecting on her time raising her eldest
daughter, saying she was “too busy to remember.” Indeed, parenting can be far busier than one might imagine, especially when it’s your first child, and every day seems to fly by. I can relate; while juggling my work at a judicial scrivener’s office and studying at university, there are times when I find it hard to recall what I did that day.
The Importance of Memories
I understand the concern of whether one can nurture the fifth child while lacking memories of raising the first. I too feel the effects of being so busy that certain memories fade. However, in the case of Tsuji-chan, I believe that now, with more experience and stability, she is likely eager to imprint the memories of raising her fifth child more deeply. This ability stems from her growth and accumulated experiences. While memories are not everything in parenting, those small moments and times spent laughing with children are invaluable treasures that stay with us. When I reflect on joyful memories with friends and family, I can’t help but smile. For instance, I remember studying with a university friend who unexpectedly brought a huge stash of snacks and declared, “This is the secret to boosting concentration!” We all laughed and enjoyed those treats together. The joy of that moment is still vivid in my mind.
Little Discoveries in Parenting
Even amidst the challenges of parenting, there are countless little discoveries and joyful moments. I believe that as Tsuji-chan raises her fifth child, she is making the most of her previous experiences, gaining new perspectives, and cherishing many heartwarming moments. In this way, it might be crucial to find ways to value those moments and keep them etched in our memories, even during busy times. Watching Tsuji-chan nurture her fifth child inspires me to be more mindful and discover insights of my own. What memories or experiences do you have related to parenting? I would love to hear your stories and advice in the comments. I’m looking forward to reading your experiences!
