Question from a reader:
Earlier, I answered a question, but if my response doesn’t meet the expectations of the other party, is there a high likelihood that I could end up on a blacklist and be unable to reply?
Reflecting on Questions from Readers
Recently, I found myself pondering a question posed by a reader: “If I provide an answer that
doesn’t align with someone’s expectations, could I end up on a blacklist?” This is quite an intriguing topic, isn’t it? I remember once answering a question on an online forum. At that time, my opinion was a bit harsh, which led to a massive battle in the comments section. While some people initially responded with “That’s an interesting perspective!” others vehemently countered with “You don’t understand anything!” It turned into a back-and-forth that felt almost like a comedy skit. Ultimately, I was banned from that forum, essentially put on a “blacklist” myself (laughs).
People Seeking Empathy
Looking back, I realize that many people indeed seek empathy. Especially on social media and online communities, there’s a strong desire for voices that agree with our opinions. Of course, I’ve experienced such moments too, so I completely understand. However, what I find concerning is how even slight differences in opinion can trigger aggressive reactions. Just the other day, while watching an anime with my child, there was a scene where characters quickly got into a fight over differing opinions. I found myself pondering, “Why do people get so angry just because opinions differ?” I turned to my child and asked, “What do you think?” They replied, “Everyone should get along!” and I couldn’t help but laugh. Children are so honest and refreshing.
Conclusion
In the end, it seems that we are all seeking an environment where our opinions are more readily accepted. Yet, I believe that it is through the clash of opinions that we can discover new insights and grow. Therefore, I hope to see more spaces where open discussions can take place. What do you think? I’d love to hear your experiences of not having your opinions accepted or those moments when you felt a sense of empathy. Please share in the comments!
