Question from a reader:
I want to investigate past domestic violence (DV) incidents, but how should I go about it? I am currently a man in my 50s and experienced violence from my father, mother, and brother from childhood until the end of middle school. I was temporarily placed in a protective facility, but I was quickly returned home. I also
have memories of going to court, but I had forgotten much of it until recently. When I contacted the nearest police station, I was told that there were no related records. Furthermore, I was informed that without a specific case name, the court could not investigate. Could anyone provide advice on how to look into past DV incidents? Thank you.

Path to Investigating Past Domestic Violence

Hello. Today, I received a consultation about wanting to investigate past domestic violence (DV) incidents. First of all, I want to commend your courage. Facing past trauma is not easy, but taking that first step is crucial for regaining peace of mind. I have also seen various cases of issues that people around me face. The problem of DV is very sensitive and complex. This time, I would like to discuss how to approach investigating past DV incidents from a legal perspective.

1. First, Organize Your Memories

First, it is important to reflect on past events. Start by recalling specific dates, events, and emotions. By organizing your memories, you can identify which information is important and where to dig deeper. For example, during the period you remember as “from childhood until the end of middle school,” there may have been particularly memorable events. If there are no records, it might be helpful to ask friends or acquaintances from that time. As time passes, memories can become vague, but what others remember can surprisingly help trigger your own memories.

2. Approaching Public Institutions

Next, consider how to approach public institutions regarding the DV you experienced in the past. As you mentioned in your inquiry, searching for records at the police or the court is effective. However, what should you do if you are told that there are no records? When contacting the police station, it is helpful to bring as much specific information as possible. Having details such as the time and place of the incident and the names of those involved can facilitate the investigation. Additionally, utilizing DV consultation hotlines or specialized legal consultation services can be beneficial. This way, you can receive advice from legal experts and potentially be introduced to additional resources.

Utilizing Consultation Hotlines

Regarding DV, consultation hotlines are established in each prefecture. Here, you can receive not only legal advice but also psychological support. With professionals available, you can expect emotional support when dealing with past trauma. One example I know of is a man who had experienced past DV. As he organized his memories, he decided to approach a consultation hotline. As a result, he was able to receive specific advice and support from experts, which helped him clarify his situation.

3. Investigating Court Records

Let’s take a closer look at court records. You mentioned having memories of going to court in the past, but it can be a bit challenging that you cannot investigate without a specific case name. However, it is possible to inquire with the court to check if records exist. In this case, it is important to provide as much specific information as you can recall. For example, if you remember the date of the court hearing, the name of the presiding judge, or details about the incident, it may help move the investigation forward.

Requesting Disclosure of Records

Furthermore, even if records cannot be found, you can file a “request for disclosure of records” with the court. This process can be somewhat complex, but consulting with a legal expert can help you understand the procedure more easily. I have a friend who, when he filed a request for disclosure of records, received important documents a few weeks later. He was grateful as it helped him delve deeper into past events.

4. Utilizing Legal Consultation

If possible, I strongly recommend seeking legal consultation. Hearing the opinions of experts can clarify how to organize information and what the next steps should be. They should be able to suggest an approach that fits your situation. When receiving legal consultation, it is crucial to organize the information you know in advance. Preparing specific questions will allow you to gain more practical advice during the consultation.

The Importance of Legal Support

I believe that legal support is extremely important. For example, a friend with experience at a consultation hotline said, “By consulting with a legal expert, I was able to understand my position and found the courage to take action.” Having legal knowledge can also help restore your peace of mind.

5. Don’t Forget Psychological Support

Of course, while investigating past DV incidents is important, psychological support is equally vital. The impact of DV affects not only physical wounds but also has deep psychological effects. Consulting with a specialized counselor or therapist can help you organize your emotions and advance the healing process. I personally appreciate having a space where I can talk about my feelings. While it is important to talk to friends and family, receiving advice from a professional perspective can be a significant emotional support.

Conclusion

Investigating past DV incidents is never easy. However, by taking that first step, you can confront the past and pave the way for the future. Through inquiries to public institutions, legal consultations, and psychological support, there are opportunities to organize your situation and obtain the necessary information. Finally, I pay my respects to your courage. Facing past events head-on can be challenging at times, but it is a path that leads to your peace of mind. I am cheering for you.