Question from a reader:
I sold my family home, but I’m having trouble with the move related to public works. Due to the expansion of a prefectural road, a purchasing company has agreed to buy the land of my family home for 35 million yen. During discussions before the contract, I was told that the company would arrange the move, but
I was later informed that I would have to bear the costs myself. In such cases, who typically bears the moving costs? Also, if there was a verbal agreement before the contract stating that the company would handle the move, but it is not documented, am I left with no choice but to accept it? Since moving involves considerable expenses, I would like to find a solution. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.

Considering the Burden of Moving Costs After Selling the Family Home

For those looking to take a new step after selling their family home, moving is an unavoidable major event. However, in the special situation of selling land due to public works, troubles related to moving can often arise. As we explore answers to the reader’s question, I will also delve into legal perspectives and psychological aspects.

Who Bears the Moving Costs?

First, let’s look at the general rules regarding the burden of moving costs. In land acquisitions related to public works, the contract between the buyer and seller holds significant importance. Generally, it is common for the purchasing company to bear the moving costs, but this is only the case if there is an agreement in place. Even if there was a statement before the contract saying, “The company will arrange the move,” if that is not documented, there is a high likelihood that you will be asked to bear the costs yourself due to the lack of legal evidence. I have heard similar stories from friends when they sold land. One friend was reassured when told before the contract that “the moving costs would be covered,” but since this was not specified in the contract, they ended up having to pay for the moving costs themselves. For someone who experienced this, it must have been a significant shock.

The Importance of Written Agreements and Verbal Promises

Now, the importance of written agreements in contracts has been emphasized repeatedly. Even if there was a verbal promise, whether it holds legal power is a complex issue. In many cases, it is preferable to have the contract details documented, especially when large sums of money are involved. Legally, verbal promises are difficult to prove, and if the other party denies the promise, you may have no choice but to accept it, which is a very unfortunate reality. When faced with such a situation, what should you do? The first step should be to discuss the matter with the purchasing company. By honestly expressing your position and the anxieties you feel, you might find some resolution. I personally realize how important it is to communicate effectively with the other party when in trouble.

Is There Room for Negotiation?

However, even if you end up having to bear the moving costs, there may still be room for negotiation. For example, you could ask for a reconsideration of the sale price of the land or request that they cover part of the moving costs. Of course, at this time, it is essential to think carefully about specific amounts and reasons, and to have materials ready to persuade the other party. A friend of mine attempted to negotiate moving costs when selling their house. As a result, the purchasing company agreed to cover part of the costs. Such small successes can provide the courage to improve one’s situation.

Options for Legal Consultation

Furthermore, if you see no way to resolve the issue regarding moving costs, considering legal consultation is also an option. By seeking the opinion of an expert, you may gain more concrete information about your position and choices. Some may feel that legal consultation is daunting, but there are increasingly more organizations offering free consultations, so I recommend trying to consult with someone without hesitation. I have personally consulted an expert when faced with legal issues, and I received specific advice that was very helpful. I believe that legal consultation is an important step in protecting one’s rights.

The Importance of Psychological Aspects

Here, I would like to expand the discussion from a psychological perspective. It is natural to feel stress and anxiety when we face troubles. In such situations, making calm judgments can be difficult. Especially when financial issues are involved, emotions can easily escalate. That is why it is important to understand one’s feelings and deal with them appropriately. I also recall the anxiety and confusion I felt during my own moving and selling experiences. Receiving support from those around me helped me organize my feelings and gave me the courage to move forward. Because we are emotional beings, such support is crucial.

Conclusion

Understanding the burden of moving costs associated with selling the family home from a legal perspective and proceeding with necessary procedures is essential. Additionally, one should not forget to make efforts to protect their rights through negotiation and legal consultation. Above all, maintaining mental health and approaching problems calmly is required. Finally, I hope that the reader can resolve this issue quickly and move on to the next step. At life’s turning points, new possibilities are always waiting.