Question from a reader:
I’m having a hard time understanding why superstars like Nakai Masahiro and Kokubun Taichi engage in sexually abusive behavior towards women. They are loved by many, so how does this happen? I understand that some people might not believe the reports, but you don’t need to respond if you feel that way.
Reflecting on the Issue of
Idols and Sexual Abuse
Recently, there has been a lot of news surrounding idols. I often find myself thinking about why popular figures like Nakai Masahiro and Kokubun Taichi would engage in such behavior. They are revered and loved by many fans, yet there are aspects of this situation that are difficult to comprehend.
The Complexity of Humanity
Humans are incredibly complex. While working part-time at a judicial scrivener’s office, I encounter a wide range of people. I often learn about their inner selves and backgrounds, which are not visible from their appearance or status. For instance, one day, an elderly man who came in for legal advice shared his past mistakes with tears in his eyes. Through his experiences, he had come to understand the darkness within people and was striving to overcome it. Idols also exist in a glamorous world, but they are likely subjected to various pressures and expectations. Behind the scenes, they may grapple with their own human weaknesses and conflicts, which we are unaware of.
Power and Influence
The power and influence that idols wield might also contribute to the issue. They are often supported and, at times, even “worshipped” by many fans. This can lead to a diminished sense of responsibility for their actions. From my experience in the judicial scrivener’s office, I’ve observed that the abuse of power by individuals in positions of authority is a phenomenon seen across all industries.
Taking Time for Self-Reflection
How we each choose to face these issues is also important. Personally, I make it a point to spend time reflecting on myself through my hobby of reading. There are moments when I might indulge too much in sweets to alleviate the confusion within my heart, but that’s part of being human. I navigate daily life with such feelings in mind.
Conclusion
There is much for us to consider regarding the actions of idols like Nakai Masahiro and Kokubun Taichi. They are human too and may face their own struggles and conflicts just like us. Therefore, instead of criticizing their actions unilaterally, we need to think about what led them to behave that way. If you have any thoughts or experiences you would like to share, please let me know in the comments. I would love to hear from you, no matter how small your insight may be.
