Question from a reader:
Why are Japanese people interested in the misfortunes of others?
Reasons for Interest in Others’ Misfortunes
Recently, while chatting with a friend, the topic came up: “Is it true that Japanese people are interested in the misfortunes of others?” Typically, we spend our time discussing lighthearted topics, but I found this serious conversation intriguing and got quite
passionate about it.
Do You Know About Negativity Bias?
My friend mentioned that humans tend to have something called negativity bias. This is the psychological tendency to react more strongly to negative events than to positive ones. I realized that, for me, sad news tends to stick in my mind longer when I see it on TV. Conversely, happy news often slips away in an instant. For example, one day while drinking at an izakaya with a friend, we noticed a couple at the next table arguing loudly. Initially, their noise frustrated us, but after a while, we noticed that other people around us were laughing and showing interest in the couple’s situation. In the end, we found ourselves enjoying their unfortunate interaction. I thought this was a clear moment where negativity bias was at play.
Misfortunes of Others and Self-Esteem
My friend remarked, “Maybe people who enjoy others’ misfortunes do so because they have low self-esteem.” I could relate to that idea somewhat. In Japan’s culture, which often involves comparison with others, many people might look down on others to maintain their own self-worth. Sadly, we might see such individuals among our acquaintances. However, personally, I don’t think being interested in others’ misfortunes is inherently a bad thing. There are many lessons to learn from others’ failures, and sometimes laughing about these situations can help relieve stress. Of course, it’s not good to view things with malice.
What Do You Think?
When considering this perspective, it seems that interest in the misfortunes of others could be a natural part of human psychology. I just hope it remains within the realm of enjoyment. Now, what do you think? Please share your recent amusing episodes or your thoughts on others’ misfortunes in the comments! I look forward to hearing from you.
