Question from a reader:
I’ve often heard the opinion that people around celebrities shouldn’t get angry about their infidelity. Why do those who hold this opinion so passionately defend strangers? It’s strange that they become so emotional over something that doesn’t concern them.
Reflecting on Celebrity Infidelity and Reactions
Recently, I was discussing celebrity infidelity with a friend. When he said,
“Infidelity is someone else’s issue, so who cares?” I was a bit surprised. Sure, it might not directly affect our lives, but I couldn’t help but wonder why he could remain so calm about it.
Sense of Justice and Self-Projection
As I listened to my friend’s opinion, my thoughts began to crystallize. Perhaps the reason people passionately defend infidelity is because they themselves have a sense of “justice.” It’s as if they feel justified in attacking someone who has cheated, believing they are fulfilling some moral obligation. I also think that those who have experienced infidelity themselves might sympathize with celebrities in similar situations and thus feel compelled to defend them. There may be a psychological aspect at play where they want to protect others to avoid being judged themselves.
Influence and Society’s Judgment
Celebrities are in a profession that draws public attention, which gives their actions significant influence. For instance, I recently saw a comedian on TV making jokes about his own infidelity. Although he was laughing, there was a hint of sadness on his face. I realized that he, too, is exposed to the expectations and criticisms of the audience. When infidelity occurs, the emotional reactions of those around it might be inevitable, considering the influence celebrities hold. In my younger days, I might have thought, “It doesn’t concern me,” but now that I have children, I find myself more concerned about the potential negative impact on them.
What do you think?
Thinking about it this way, I feel like I understand the reactions and opinions of those around me a bit better. Ultimately, it probably comes down to individual values and experiences. However, I don’t believe that becoming emotional is always a good thing. What are your thoughts on the issue of celebrity infidelity? If you have any experiences or opinions to share, please let me know in the comments! It might be fun to chat over some snacks. I’ve been reflecting on how I’ve been eating too many snacks lately. I’m looking forward to hearing your opinions!
